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Monday, March 31, 2025

First quarter progress...

Prompts that have been completed are preceded by a black dot.

Can you believe that a quarter of the year has already gone by?  I feel pretty good about my challenge progress so far.  Quite a few books, that have been on my Kindle for such a long time, have now been read.  A lot have also been borrowed and read.  

Keeping in mind my original goal of reading down my backlog of books has worked wonders at keeping me from buying books!  I won't say I've bought none, I bought two just yesterday for $1.99 each, but they were two copies of the same book that I bought for a friend and I to read and discuss.  The topic interested me, and the  forward of the book is by an author that both of us like.  I'm not sure either of us will read it soon.

I have been struggling a bit lately (haven't we all?), so reading has been an escape.  I need to get a handle on some things, and I've reached out for some help with that.  

I'm doing okay with 2025 goals. I keep them in daily sight by writing the entire list at the top of the page of my weekly to-do list.
  • + I deleted time wasters from my phone, but put Sudoku back on.  I tried using a paper Sudoku book, but found it took me longer to look for it, and find a pencil, and play a game, than to just play one game on my phone.  And I do keep it to just one game.  In times of stress, I have added solitaire, but then uninstall again when I feel calmer.
  • + I've baked bread twice.
  • -  No quilts finished yet.
  • + Book challenge already addressed.
  • + I've worked on both Storyworth and Ancestry a little.
  • + I am volunteering at the library weekly.
  • -  No Canasta for us yet.
  • +/- I've had the Featherweight worked on, but it needs to go to a pro, so I'll take it soon.
  • +  I've found date/time/location of farmer's market, so hope to go next time they are open.
  • -  I'm behind on the 52 letters, but will make it up.

Friday, March 28, 2025

2025 Frugal Friday File, March 28...


I can't.  I just can't this week.
 

On the menu this week:

Saturday:  Saturday family supper at Kasey & Beau's

Sunday:  takeout BBQ baked potatoes

Monday:  homemade meal from freezer: Pork chops/Squash Casserole/Broccoli

Tuesday:  takeout Schlotzky sandwiches

Wednesday:  homemade meal from freezer: Roast/Dumplings/Broccoli

Thursday:  Meatballs, Au Gratin Potatoes, Cranberry sauce

Friday:  Who knows?

**designates meatless meal 

Wednesday, March 26, 2025

What I'm reading Wednesday...

Fifteenth finish of the year.

At just eleven pages, this wasn't really long enough to count as a book, but I'm going to, because it's been on my Kindle for a loooong while waiting to be read, and because it was delightful!  We all know the story, but Diane Setterfield (whose books I have really enjoyed as well) added her usual quirky vibe to the classic fairy tale.  Loved it!

It's only available on Kindle, and it's FREE.


Sixteenth finish of the year.

Very interesting book, written by an autistic boy, Naoki Higashida, in Japan when he was 13 years old (he is now 32).  Each 'chapter' was headed by a question that people have about autistic children, such as "Why don't you make eye contact when you're talking?"  He painstakingly constructed his responses using an alphabet grid.  The book was translated from the Japanese by KA Yoshida and David Mitchell (author of Cloud Atlas).


Refuge by Dot Jackson

Now I am reading Refuge.  It has been on my Kindle for almost five years.  If I had known how good it would be, I'd have read it right away.

Mary Seneca Steele is born in Charleston in the early 1900s.  Her father is a kind and intelligent man, who delights in his daughter and playing his fiddle.  Sadly, when she is still a young child, he dies.  Her mother is somewhat distant, and 'Sen' ends up marrying into a neighborhood family, and her abusive husband depletes her inheritance and keeps on spending.  The very day in 1929 that he came home in a new car, she waits till he is asleep and escapes with their two children in the new car.  

She drives to find her father's family in the Blue Ridge Mountains that she knows only from her father's stories.  

I'm about a third of the way through, and loving it.

Saturday, March 22, 2025

I am SO FRUSTRATED...

Is anyone else having issues with Google and/or Chrome?  It is a never-ending battle every time I use my laptop.  I've had updates switch settings before, but I am ready to just toss everything.

I used to have just one Google account, the one that my blog is attached to.  When I got a smartphone, I did not want to have my blog and home email attached to my phone gmail account, so I have a separate google account for that.  For years it was not a problem.

Now I have to log on to my original (blog) account every single time I turn on my laptop.  And it wants to sync all my devices.  I am a compartmentalist!  I do not want all my devices synced!

It has been a nightmare since this all started.  First I couldn't get my home email, and that took forever to figure out.  Then I had to keep a link in a word document to  get into my blog's post pages to make any changes other than just viewing the blog.  Now all of my favorites disappeared from my Chrome home page.  I get some of them back, but then they disappear again.

I am BLEEPing PI$$ED!

In trying to find an answer I came across an article about AI issues makes it important to switch from using passwords to using passkeys.  Oh, joy!  Yet another thing I don't understand.  I can't keep up.  If you don't hear from me, it means either my head has exploded or I've gone offgrid self-preservation mode.

Friday, March 21, 2025

2025 Frugal Friday File, March 21...

 

1.  I was able to make it through the week without needing a major grocery shop (I think Carey went to pick up few things he wanted).  Our batch of Dublin Coddle from Monday covered three meals, and we like it well  enough not to turn down its leftovers.

2.  The two monsteras that I got last spring are still thriving in our living room.  Jared was here recently.  We were watching something on tv that showed a monstera, and I said something about the one on tv looking artificial.  Jared gave me a funny look, that made me realize he thought mine were artificial.  He couldn't believe it when I said they are live plants.  I guess he hasn't noticed that they are bigger than they used to be, but still I was tickled that I have kept them so healthy and hardy for a year now.

3.  Glad that reading can be a frugal hobby.  I've been sticking with my resolve to fill the challenge prompts with books already owned by me or free.

4.  I have not shelled out for a new car...yet.

5.  FRUGAL FAIL!  I caved to the lure of Joanne Fabrics.  I just felt the longing for a last visit to say goodbye.  The prices were not great, but I knew I would cave to the beauty of the fabrics and not be able to leave it behind.  I did spend too much, but if I stretch it over a year, it only works out to $1 a day.  ;)

On the menu this week:

Saturday:  Saturday family supper at Kasey & Beau's

Sunday:  Breakfast for dinner

Monday:  Dublin Coddle & Irish Soda Bread

Tuesday:  leftovers

Wednesday:  takeout burgers

Thursday:  frozen pot pies

Friday:  Carey leftovers / I skipped supper

Thursday, March 20, 2025

Thanks for the honey-done...

We've lived in this house for 14 years, and I've never been crazy about the shower in the master bathroom.  It is very small.  It has a weird showerhead set up.  The cold and hot water controls are backward.  And the shower head could not be swiveled, so in order not to have it come straight down on my head, I had to hug the perimeter of the shower (and curse that bleeping showerhead) during the entire process.

For years I made do.  Then one jet got blocked (that vinegar soak would not dislodge), and there was no way to avoid either water on my head or water spraying cockeyed right into my face.  I did not suffer in silence.  I finally quit taking showers, and only took baths, but that's a lot of water, and my knees are not happy with climbing and lowering into the bath.

We have talked about remodeling the bathroom to make the shower larger and handicap accessible (wider entrance and lower threshold as well as built-in grab bars), and also adding a walk-in bathtub.  (I think there is space to do both of those projects if we decrease from the giant tub we have now to increase the shower space.)  Those are expensive projects, and something that we can continue kicking down the road.  

Carey is such a Johnny-on-the-spot fix-it guy, that I just didn't understand why he could not change the shower head.  I think it just confounded him, and it didn't bother him, so it wasn't a priority.

This week he undertook the job, and completed the change out in very short order.  The first time I took a shower, I left him my review (photo above).  I think he liked it, as he hasn't removed it from the shower door.  I always try to make sure he knows how much I appreciate all the tasks that he is able to do to save us paying someone to come  in and do it.  This particular fix deserved more than a verbal thanks.  I heard him laugh out loud when he saw the "2 thumbs up" rating at bottom left.  :)

Wednesday, March 19, 2025

What I'm reading Wednesday...

Thirteenth finish of the year.

Good but challenging.  I had intended this one for another prompt, but a couple of the stories were a little difficult for me to keep track of the thread due to what I would understand to be stream of consciousness narrative.  If I am wrong about that, then I don't want to know, and I don't want to read any more of that this year.  :)  But I have to say this really was good, and really got me worked up about politics then (1930s) and now.


Fourteenth finish of the year.

This was a new ebook available at the library through the Boundless App, and I thought I'd give it a try for the 'Includes Latin American History Prompt.'  I couldn't get it to download to my Kindle, so I had to read it on my phone, which is not my preferred method of reading, but it was okay, especially since this is a compilation of a dozen short stories rather than one continuous novel.  I enjoyed the stories and their diversity.  Some took place in Guatemala, others were about Guatemalans in the U.S.  One was about a Hollywood movie being filmed in a Guatemalan village.  The Maya religion plays a part in some of the stories; others refer to conquistadores and colonization with Catholicism converting the indigenous people.

Tuesday, March 18, 2025

Belated birthday wishes, Mom...

Hope everyone had a happy St. Patrick's Day.  We enjoyed Dublin Coddle and Irish Soda Bread for supper.

Yesterday, St. Patrick's Day, would have been my mother's 109th birthday.  (Why, yes, she was 71 when she gave birth to me.  LOL  Okay, okay, she was really 41.)  So in memory of her and my dad, I would like to say a little about federal employees.

This is my mother in a photo taken in Washington D.C. (circa 1940) where she started her Civil Service career during the build up to World War II.  She and my father moved from small-town Nebraska to the big, over-crowded nation's capital, which was stretched to the limits with the influx of citizens coming to do their part.

Before Mom and Dad married, my mother had taken a civil service test responding to the nation-wide call for clerical workers to fill the vacancies left by men who were leaving to join up or otherwise assist in the war effort, as well as to staff the new offices preparing for global war.  The offer of employment was mailed to her grandparents' home (where she was raised), and her grandfather thought that since she was married, she had no business going off to the Nation's capital, so he did not forward it to her.  The first time she and my dad went to visit her grandparents and picked up her mail, she was crushed that the respond-by date had passed.  But she was not one to give up easily, so she responded anyway, and was told when and where to report.  

(Now, I like to say that my mom was ahead of her time...she made more money than my dad, she had a lot of respect in her workplace, heck, on at least one occasion I remember, she helicoptered to a business meeting...in the 1960s!  But I have to give my dad his due here, because he was ahead of his time too, in signing up for a badass wife and not letting it get to him...most of the time.

So Mom worked for the government in Washington, D.C. throughout the war.  She lived and worked as a single mom while my dad went off and did a U.S. Army gig called the Battle of Okinawa. (He was pretty badass too.)

When the war ended, and the war work in D.C. started decreasing, Mom and Dad  moved to Texas.  On the gulf coast of Texas (Gulf of MEXICO, that is), the U.S. Navy trained pilots.  My dad went to work on one of the bases' fuel farms supplying jet fuel to all those planes.  My mother went to work in the comptroller's department keeping the base fiscally on target.

A very common occurrence for me, was being awakened in the middle of the night to the smell of coffee and the sound of Mom's adding machine preparing payroll.  Not too often, but not uncommon, were trips to work with her on weekends.  As the civilian supervisor of the department (working under the authority of a Naval officer head of department), there were times that things just HAD to be done.  The comptroller department was located in the same building as the parachute 'loft' and they shared a bathroom.  A trip to the bathroom on the weekend meant walking through a huge dark empty room full of large tables, and being warned not to touch, because touching anything could possibly cause a parachute to malfunction and cause a fatality.  

Did she claim all the overtime?  Doubtful.  

The part of the job that affected me the most was rarely having my mother there when I was home sick from school.  I would get farmed out to a neighbor.  What kid wants to lie on a couch at a neighbor's instead of being home in their own bed with Mom bringing in tea and toast?  I hated it so much that I was hell bent on not subjecting my kids to it, so we became a one-paycheck family pretty early.  

All this to say that federal employees are not slackers, and they quite often work hard enough to be a detriment to their family and/or personal lives.  Is there government waste?  Undoubtedly, but it is not going to be found by rank newbies to the intricacies of what it takes to keep a country running safely, healthily, and successfully.  

So this is my song of love and thanks to all of the misunderstood and underappreciated people who work for you and me...the lawyers, the accountants, the people who process our taxes and Social Security, the custodians, the doctors and nurses, the scientists, inspectors of our food supply, and park rangers...and so many more.  I pray this crisis of craziness and upheaval does not cause any permanent damage.  Unfortunately, I am not hopeful of that.

Friday, March 14, 2025

2025 Frugal Friday File, March 14...

 

1.  I've successfully made it through the Amazon blackout (3/7 - 3/14).

2.  Did some thrifting at Goodwill.  I bought men's 100% cotton shirts; all but one was XL or XXL, and two were the half-price color tag.  Brought them home and laundered them.  Next (or eventually) I will remove seams, and store the raw fabric for future quilting projects.  I mean Joann Fabrics will be gone...I still haven't gone for the chaotic closing tour. 

One of my granddaughters has a phobia of Goodwill (her very first time inside one was at the 'Bins,' and the chaos and the glove requirement freaked her out).  Now I keep telling her that I'm going to get her Christmas and birthday gifts from there from now on.  She'll never suspect that a Grandma-made quilt (or at least the raw materials [pardon the pun]) could be from Goodwill.  :)

While at Goodwill I also picked up a new-in-box set of twelve wide-mouth quart Mason Jars for $9.  And another vintage square jar with original lid (about 1/2 gallon size) for $3.  

3.  I volunteered at the library used book sale section without buying any books. 

4.  I didn't buy a new car yet.

5.  I didn't get a haircut.

In other words I pretty much stayed home and did nothing but read.  :)

On the menu this week:

Saturday:  Chinese takeout

Sunday:  Sunday family supper at Kasey's

Monday:  out for Tex-Mex

Tuesday:  Roast, Dumplings, Carrots, Broccoli

Wednesday:  Homecooked meal from freezer/Ham and homemade Mac&Cheese

Thursday:  Breakfast for supper

Friday:  late lunch, skipped supper

**designates meatless meal

Wednesday, March 12, 2025

What I'm reading Wednesday...

 

Eleventh finish of the year.

Amusing heist story.  A group of five friends, who are discontented with the downhill trend of the quality at their assisted living facility, turn to a life of crime to make some money for better food and living it up a little.


Twelfth finish of the year.

I like to read a book or two set in Ireland during March to mark St. Patrick's Day.  

This one is about a Chicago police officer who, in a difficult time with both his job and marriage, decides to retire and move to Ireland.  I've read a lot of books about women who move to Ireland or Scotland, but I think this is the first I've read about a man who does it, and it totally worked.  There is a sequel, which I have reserved at the library (and I'm 12th in line for it).

Friday, March 7, 2025

2025 Frugal Friday File, March 7...

 

1.  Aside from one meal out to try out a new local restaurant (which Carey loved so much, it was totally worth it), we had a really frugal grocery week.

2.  I've been feeling kind of iffy this week, so except for a trip to the library and chiropractor, I've been staying home and spending no money.  

3.  I've avoided checking for possible close-out clearance deals at Joann's.

4.  Carey picked up some tomato and pepper plants...fingers crossed!

5.  Sadly, Carey has found an issue with our car for which the repair costs would not be smart to invest in a ten-year-old car.  He's been doing mechanic work since his teens, went to school for it, did it professionally for awhile, and has taken really good care of all of our cars.  So I trust his assessment, and I'm super thankful for all the repair costs he has saved us over the years.  Still, I'm less than excited about car shopping.

On the menu this week:

Saturday:  Saturday family supper at Kasey & Beau's

Sunday:  leftovers

Monday:  Meatballs, Scalloped Potatoes, Cranberry Sauce

Tuesday:  out to try a new Italian restaurant

Wednesday:  Tuna Salad Sandwiches

Thursday:  Carey: Twice-baked Sweet Potato, Me: skipped

Friday:  leftovers

Thursday, March 6, 2025

Twice-baked Sweet Potato to the rescue...

 

(This is a very poor photo...apologies.)

I had a late lunch, so I needed to come up with something for Carey's supper. 

While I was out today, I was talking to a friend, and the subject of Tajin seasoning came up.  I told her that the newest thing I add it to is the Twice Baked Sweet Potatoes that I've been making this winter.  She doesn't care much for sweet potatoes, but tries to keep them in her diet for their healthful benefits, and she asked me how I made them, because she had a single sweet potato at home.  I realized that I also had a single sweet potato at home, so Carey's supper was decided, as I decided I could use the opportunity to write the recipe down for her and post it here.


Bake a sweet potato until tender.  Scoop out most of the flesh (leaving a little in the skin of the potato); place the removed flesh in a bowl, and mash it.


Add*
1 Tablespoons of butter
2 Tablespoons of sour cream
1 Tablespoon of Parmesan cheese, grated (I just used Kraft)
1 teaspoon Hidden Valley dry dressing mix
1 teaspoon Tajin seasoning
1/8 cup of Monterrey Jack cheese, grated
1 strip of cooked bacon, crumbled
     *these amounts are for one potato, increase accordingly.

Mix well, and return the seasoned flesh back to the potato jacket.  Top with a protein of your choice.  I have used shredded chicken, as well as chopped barbecued brisket.  Tonight I had neither, so I baked a few slices of bacon, while I was baking the sweet potato.  I set aside a few bites for Rudy, and laid the other strips across the top of the sweet potato, topped with a little more grated Monterrey Jack cheese, and baked for another ten to fifteen minutes at 350° F.

For those not familiar with Tajin, it is found in the seasoning aisle.  It is a combination of mild chili peppers, lime, and sea salt.  I put it in on fresh fruit, shake it on deviled eggs, baked sweet potatoes obviously, sliced tomatoes, tomato juice, makes a great rim salt for a Margarita, as well as lots of other things.

I'm not sponsored by Tajin, I just really like it!

Wednesday, March 5, 2025

What I'm reading Wednesday...

From now on, I think I will just post my finished challenge books on What I'm Reading Wednesdays.  Yesterday, I was too excited to have finished Moby Dick, so I had to share immediately.  :)

Eighth finish for the year.

I have not read all of the books in this series (Cork O'Connor Mysteries), but have enjoyed the few that I have read (and the author's stand-alone novels are wonderful).  When I saw that this prequel was available, I definitely wanted to read it to fulfill this prompt.

Wasn't disappointed.  I read it every chance I got, and worked my way through it very quickly.


Ninth finish of the year.

Glad I stuck it out.  Personally I think it could have lost about four- to five-hundred  pages for the current-day audience.  But as I was thinking about it, when it was published, there weren't a lot of forms of personal entertainment, and books were expensive, so I suppose the hours and hours and hours of story were welcome.

And I learned a lot about whaling and sperm whales.  Then, just today, I was sad to see that a sperm whale was entangled in ropes from fishing boats and washed up on the Isle of Raasay (between the Isle of Skye and the Scottish mainland) where it died.

image found at animalspot.net/whale

Check out the size difference between the Sperm Whale and the Killer Whale that we are used to seeing at Sea World!


Tenth finish for the year.

really love Elizabeth Strout's work.  The way she writes auxiliary characters is the best.  They come, stay awhile, and go.  And then in another book or two they drop by for another visit or at least a mention.

I almost gave this 5 stars, because I could happily read it again.  In fact, I wouldn't mind starting with the author's first book and reading them all again chronologically.

Monday, March 3, 2025

It is 4:00 a.m., and I came to say...

 
I SURVIVED MOBY DICK!

Woohoo!!!

Now I just realized that I am supposed to be quilting at the library in a short five and one half hours, so off to bed I go.

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